Natural Killer (NK) cells are innate cytotoxic lymphocytes that possess features of adaptive immunity, including antigen specificity and clonal expansion. NK cells rapidly respond to cytokines released during the innate phase of viral infection and are thought to migrate from circulation into infected organs to execute their early effector functions. However, recent evidence suggests that tissue-resident NK cells are among the first responders to viral infection. In this study, we observe that antigen receptor signaling precedes substantial proinflammatory cytokine signaling in a population of NK cells during mouse cytomegalovirus infection. Early antigen receptor signals epigenetically prime NK cells for optimal expansion during the later adaptive phase of the antiviral response. Mechanistically, receptor signaling increases chromatin accessibility at STAT4-binding genomic sites within differentiating NK cells. To promote adaptive programming of NK cells during infection, activating receptor-dependent epigenetic remodeling antagonizes IL-12 driven terminal maturation, poises NK cells for proliferation via sustained CDK6 expression, and antagonizes early apoptosis of short-lived effector cells via suppression of Bim. Thus, antigen receptor signaling alters an IL-12 dependent fate decision during the innate-to-adaptive transition of antiviral NK cells.