A wideband low-scattering metasurface with optical transparency and flexibility is proposed by using the combination of phase cancellation and absorption mechanisms. Electromagnetic (EM) diffusion is achieved through the random phase distribution design of the two coding elements. The enhanced energy absorption can be obtained in a wide spectrum by using indium tin oxide (ITO) with suitable sheet resistance in the supercells. The experimental results show that the radar cross section (RCS) reductions of less than -10 dB under the planar and conformal cases are in 6.65-19.40 GHz and 6.11-17.37 GHz, corresponding relative bandwidth are 97.89% and 95.91%, respectively. Both theoretical analysis and simulated results are good accordance with the experiment. Furthermore, the analyses of the surface current, EM field distribution and power loss density are given to explain the hybrid RCS reduction mechanism. The proposed composite transparent flexible coding metasurface (CTFCM) maintains good angular stability within 0°-60° oblique incidence and has polarization insensitivity. The CTFCM has excellent flexibility and high optical transparency, which provides a way to reduce RCS in a wider band and has important application potential for stealth aircraft cockpit and transparent radome.