There is a huge challenge to target multispectral compatible designs to satisfy the conflicting parametric requirements according to specific engineering requirements. In this work, a novel design method of multispectral compatible integration based on a lossy capacitive multispectral meta-film (MMF) is proposed. The simple guidelines from the impedance matching conditions of MMF derived from the transmission line model were employed to guide and analyze the broadband microwave absorption behavior. An autonomous optimization platform was constructed to simultaneously realize the customization of low infrared emissivity, as well as the widest microwave absorption bandwidth while ensuring maximum visible transparency. Following the guidance of the design method, a flexible structure with a low infrared emissivity of 0.534, wideband microwave absorption from 8.9 to 16.4 GHz covering X, Ku, and high visible transmission of 70.18% and ultra-thin thickness of 2.3 mm was finally obtained. The experimental results and simulation results were in high agreement, indicating the MMF has great application potential in multispectral stealth on optical windows, further demonstrating the versatility and effectiveness of the design method.