Investigation of elementary excitations has advanced our understanding of many-body physics governing most physical properties of matter. Recently spin-orbit excitons have drawn much attention, whose condensates near phase transitions exhibit Higgs mode oscillations, a long-sought-after physical phenomenon [A. Jain, et al., Nat. Phys. 13, 633 (2017)NPAHAX1745-247310.1038/nphys4077]. These critical transition points, resulting from competing spin-orbit coupling (SOC), local crystalline symmetry, and exchange interactions, are not obvious in iridium-based materials, where SOC prevails in general. Here, we present results of resonant inelastic x-ray scattering on a spin-orbital liquid Ba_{3}ZnIr_{2}O_{9} and three other 6H-hexagonal perovskite iridates that show magnetism, contrary to the nonmagnetic singlet ground state expected due to strong SOC. Our results show that substantial hopping between closely placed Ir^{5+} ions within Ir_{2}O_{9} dimers in these 6H iridates modifies spin-orbit coupled states and reduces spin-orbit excitation energies. Here, we are forced to use at least a two-site model to match the excitation spectrum going in-line with the strong intradimer hopping. Apart from SOC, low-energy physics of iridates is thus critically dependent on hopping and may not be ignored even for systems having moderate hopping, where the excitation spectra can be explained using an atomic model. SOC, which is generally found to be 0.4-0.5 eV in iridates, is scaled in effect down to ∼0.26 eV for the 6H systems, sustaining the hope of achieving quantum criticality by tuning Ir-Ir separation.