"It is OK to let them know you are human too": Mentor self-disclosure in formal youth mentoring relationships

J Community Psychol. 2019 May;47(4):943-963. doi: 10.1002/jcop.22165. Epub 2019 Feb 3.

Abstract

This study aims to capture descriptive data on how mentors self-disclose to their adolescent mentees. Self-disclosure is a normative communication process that facilitates trust and closeness in interpersonal relationships. Despite being a relational intervention, little is known about self-disclosure in youth-mentoring relationships. A total of 54 mentors from 2 community-based mentoring programs in Auckland, New Zealand, participated in this mixed-methods study about their experiences of disclosing to mentees via an online questionnaire. In this sample, mentors disclosed about various topics, including hobbies, school and work, health, beliefs, self-esteem, substance use, emotions, sex, and money. Qualitative analysis identified themes regarding how mentors self-disclose, disclosure influencing positive relationship characteristics, the influence of mentoring programs, challenges with mentee interest and culture clashes, and the perceived effect of self-disclosure on mentees and the mentoring relationship. These mentors disclosed broadly and viewed generally self-disclosure in a positive way, but they also experienced challenges and complexities.

Keywords: Youth mentoring; communication; interpersonal relationships; mentors; mixed-methods research; self-disclosure; thematic analysis.

Publication types

  • Research Support, Non-U.S. Gov't

MeSH terms

  • Adolescent
  • Adult
  • Communication
  • Female
  • Humans
  • Interpersonal Relations*
  • Male
  • Mentoring*
  • Mentors*
  • Middle Aged
  • New Zealand
  • Program Evaluation
  • Self Disclosure*
  • Students*