This paper draws on ethnographic data collected from two low-income communities in Mumbai India to explore types of risk and intimacy associated with marital practices. A rapidly globalising India offers access to media, social networks and changing gender norms that create opportunities for young women. Concurrently, enduring patriarchal norms impact marriage and the development of intimacy. Young women whose parents decide on early arranged marriages face inequity and difficulties in establishing emotional and physical intimacy with their husbands. Some young women and their families delay an arranged marriage to ensure educational and/or career advancement, seeking a husband and family that will appreciate her independence. Young women in delayed arranged marriages are more prepared for marital relationships but may experience difficulties meeting family and career expectations and establishing intimacy. Young women who develop their own relationships that evolve into 'love' marriages can initially achieve high levels of intimacy, but the strains stemming from the loss of family support can later undermine the spousal relationship. Within and across these different marital types, there is also a great deal of fluidity and variation in young women's experiences as they adapt to globalised and patriarchal norms in urban India.
Keywords: India; Intimacy; marriage; risk.