How I approach expressing condolences and longitudinal remembering to a family after the death of a child

Pediatr Blood Cancer. 2019 Feb;66(2):e27489. doi: 10.1002/pbc.27489. Epub 2018 Oct 14.

Abstract

Bereaved families fear their child being forgotten by those who knew their loved child, including their child's oncology team. Thoughtfully timed, family-centric condolences shared by pediatric oncology team members have the potential to extend our compassion and kindness toward a family during the darkness of grief. Well-intended medical teams sometimes feel "at a loss" in terms of what to say to a grieving family and how or when to say it. This paper provides a tangible overview of written or verbal condolence communication in a format that can be personalized to the provider and the patient's family.

Keywords: bereavement; condolences; death and dying; pediatric oncology; pediatric palliative care.

Publication types

  • Research Support, N.I.H., Extramural
  • Research Support, N.I.H., Intramural

MeSH terms

  • Child
  • Death*
  • Grief*
  • Humans
  • Medical Oncology*
  • Neoplasms / mortality*
  • Professional-Family Relations*