Although quantum dots (QDs) have remarkable potential application in flexible light emitting diodes (LED), the loss of solvent-protected QDs leads to low quantum yield (QY) and poor stability, severely restricting the development. Flexible QD LEDs (Q-LEDs) with three primary colors were fabricated by mixing CdS/ZnS, CdSe@ZnS/ZnS, and CdSe/CdS QDs with polydimethylsiloxane (PDMS) by in situ hydrosilylation based surface manipulation strategy, which endows the device with highly ultrastable and luminescent performance. The surface manipulation strategy mainly includes the control of solvent dosage, purification times of QDs, concentration of QDs in PDMS, and oxidation on the preparation process of the QDs and PDMS composites. The highest QY of CdSe@ZnS/ZnS-PDMS composite is 82.03%, higher than the QY (80%) of the QD solution. After UV bleaching, organic solvents (acetone, ethanol and water), and heating treatment, the QYs of the QDs and PDMS maintain a high value, manifesting their good stability. Q-LED hybrid light-emitting devices were further fabricated by a molding technique demonstrating satisfied current and thermal stability. Flexible Q-LEDs can be expended to other shapes, such as fibers and blocks, indicating the huge potential of QD-polymer composites for light sources and displays etc.