"Only you can play with me!" Children's inclusive decision making, reasoning, and emotions based on peers' gender and behavior problems

J Exp Child Psychol. 2017 Oct:162:134-148. doi: 10.1016/j.jecp.2017.04.019. Epub 2017 Jun 7.

Abstract

This study examined the development of children's decisions, reasoning, and emotions in contexts of peer inclusion/exclusion. We asked an ethnically diverse sample of 117 children aged 4years (n=59; 60% girls) and 8years (n=58; 49% girls) to choose between including hypothetical peers of the same or opposite gender and with or without attention deficit/hyperactivity problems and aggressive behavior. Children also provided justifications for, and emotions associated with, their inclusion decisions. Both 4- and 8-year-olds predominantly chose to include the in-group peer (i.e., the same-gender peer and peers without behavior problems), thereby demonstrating a normative in-group inclusive bias. Nevertheless, children included the out-group peer more in the gender context than in the behavior problem contexts. The majority of children reported group functioning-related, group identity-related, and stereotype-related reasoning after their in-group inclusion decisions, and they associated happy feelings with such decisions. Although most children attributed sadness to the excluded out-group peer, they attributed more anger to the excluded out-group peer in the aggression context compared with other contexts. We discuss the implications of our findings for current theorizing about children's social-cognitive and emotional development in contexts of peer inclusion and exclusion.

Keywords: Emotions; Peer exclusion; Peer inclusion; Peer relations; Reasoning; Social decision making.

MeSH terms

  • Child
  • Child Development
  • Child, Preschool
  • Decision Making*
  • Emotions*
  • Female
  • Gender Identity*
  • Humans
  • Interpersonal Relations
  • Male
  • Peer Group*
  • Play and Playthings / psychology*
  • Problem Behavior / psychology*
  • Psychology, Child
  • Social Behavior*