"Renewed" "older" motherhood/mothering: a qualitative exploration

J Women Aging. 2015;27(2):103-22. doi: 10.1080/08952841.2014.927728. Epub 2015 Jan 12.

Abstract

This UK-based qualitative study explored multiparous women's experiences of being "older" mothers. Respondents were "renewed mothers" who had a child/children relatively early in their reproductive careers and then again after 35 years of age. Key themes arising from the empirical data were: instrumental role of male partners in post-35 mothering, purported "renewal" of self in the face of menopause/diminution of mothering, caring for teenagers and babies/toddlers simultaneously, and subjection to criticisms of "wrong-aged" motherhood. Experiences of "renewed" "older" mothers suggest significant hard work is necessitated both in terms of mothering and presentation of self as an appropriate mother.

Keywords: motherhood; mothering; multiparous; narrative; older; qualitative.

MeSH terms

  • Adult
  • Family Characteristics
  • Female
  • Humans
  • Maternal Age*
  • Mother-Child Relations*
  • Mothers / psychology*
  • Parenting*
  • Parity
  • Qualitative Research
  • Reproductive Behavior
  • Role
  • Self Concept*
  • Spouses / psychology