In the wake of violence: enacting and witnessing hope among people

Fam Process. 2013 Sep;52(3):355-67. doi: 10.1111/famp.12010. Epub 2012 Nov 29.

Abstract

In the territory of violence and despair, hope is rare. Recent work on hope has shifted attention from hope as a feeling to hope as a practice that people can do together. This case report of a family exposed to domestic violence highlights the role played by a South African police officer in the mother's actions to separate from the context of violence. As a witness to the violence, the police officer acted from an ethic of justice and an ethic of compassion. Outsider witnessing of a counseling session resulted in the recruiting of a community of acknowledgement for the mother, the police officer, and an Assistant Commissioner of Police. Listening carefully and doing hope together gave rise to alliances against practices of violence. As a step of accountability, the authors used reflexive practices to question their responses and to avoid colonizing practices.

Keywords: Doing Hope Together; Domestic Violence; Ethic of Justice and Compassion; Witnessing Practices.

MeSH terms

  • Adolescent
  • Adult
  • Anger
  • Child
  • Conduct Disorder / prevention & control
  • Conduct Disorder / psychology
  • Conduct Disorder / therapy
  • Cooperative Behavior
  • Counseling
  • Domestic Violence / legislation & jurisprudence*
  • Domestic Violence / prevention & control
  • Domestic Violence / psychology*
  • Empathy
  • Expert Testimony / legislation & jurisprudence*
  • Female
  • Hope*
  • Humans
  • Interdisciplinary Communication
  • Male
  • Narrative Therapy
  • Parenting / psychology
  • Police* / education
  • Psychosocial Deprivation
  • Residence Characteristics
  • Social Justice / legislation & jurisprudence
  • Social Responsibility
  • Social Support
  • South Africa
  • Volunteers