Victim-perpetrator reconciliation

Violence Against Women. 1997 Oct;3(5):515-32. doi: 10.1177/1077801297003005005.

Abstract

PIP: This document presents a case study describing how therapists collaborated to achieve a victim-perpetrator reconciliation between an uncle who sexually molested his niece more than 30 years earlier when they were 12 and 5 years old, respectively. After an introduction, the document presents the case history, including what occurred between the children, how the female victim eventually sought therapy and sent her uncle an angry letter, and how the uncle immediately responded with contrition. Next, the victim's therapist describes therapeutic issues such as enlisting the help of the victim's support system, uncovering the intergenerational incest present in her family, and helping the victim understand the potential ramifications of her demands for compensation. The perpetrators' therapist then explains his decision to eschew further condemnation of the perpetrator's actions and to support his efforts to achieve healing and reconciliation. Each therapist also discusses how they turned to their own support groups to deal with transference issues and to seek advice. Next, the paper reviews how each therapist helped the clients deal with relevant legal issues arising from the victim's desire for monetary compensation for damages. After consultation with lawyers, the clients were able to arrive at a satisfactory settlement that aided the process of reconciliation.

Publication types

  • Case Reports

MeSH terms

  • Adolescent
  • Age Factors
  • Americas
  • Behavior
  • Child Abuse*
  • Child*
  • Crime
  • Demography
  • Developed Countries
  • Ethics*
  • Family Characteristics
  • Family Relations*
  • Incest*
  • North America
  • Population
  • Population Characteristics
  • Psychology*
  • Research
  • Sex Offenses*
  • Social Problems
  • United States