Pacar and Tamu: Indonesian women sex workers' relationships with men

Cult Health Sex. 1999 Jan-Mar;1(1):39-53. doi: 10.1080/136910599301157.

Abstract

PIP: This article reports on research on the multiple identities and behavior of female prostitutes in Indonesia as they relate to different players in their lives. It is introduced with a review of the literature, which reveals an underlying research bias that prostitutes are a hazard to society and a lack of attention to how they negotiate various aspects of their daily lives. The next sections review the various degrees to which Indonesian women engage in sex work and the concept of multiple identities. The prostitutes support their moves from one identity to another (mother, lover, daughter, sister, sex worker) with various rituals and codes that govern degrees of emotional involvement. The description of the study methodology notes that sex workers from Jakarta (486), Bandung (342), and Surabaya (658) were studied using a variety of means and that this report draws mainly on qualitative findings. The report then discusses why the women begin sex work, the problems that arise when the women attempt to keep their disparate roles discreet, relationships with casual clients and rituals performed with casual clients to enhance cleanliness and prevent disease, relationships with regular clients, relationships with boyfriends, and relationships of older women with men who consider them their "secret wives." The study concludes that the different roles and expected behaviors of these women must be understood to expose their sexual identities. Furthermore, programs to prevent disease must recognize that women who sell sex have complex identities and various types of relationships with men.

MeSH terms

  • Asia
  • Asia, Southeastern
  • Behavior
  • Developing Countries
  • Disease
  • HIV Infections*
  • Indonesia
  • Infections
  • Interpersonal Relations*
  • Sexual Behavior*
  • Sexually Transmitted Diseases*
  • Virus Diseases
  • Women*