The traditional analysis method for super multi-view 3D display based on geometric optics, which approximates the lenticular lenses as a series of pinhole structures, ignored the chromatic aberration. In this paper, the optimization method based on diffraction theory is proposed for super multi-view 3D display, where the wavefronts are evaluated accurately by the forward propagation method, and the chromatic aberration of the synthetic viewpoint image is reduced dramatically by the backward reconstruction optimization method (BROM). The optical experiment is performed to verify the feasibility of the method, which is consistent with numerical simulation results. It is proved that the proposed method simulates the physical propagation process of super multi-view 3D display and improves the reconstructed image quality. In the future, it can be used to achieve the super multi-view 3D light field technology with low crosstalk.