What are Romantic Relationships Good for? An Explorative Analysis of the Perceived Benefits of Being in a Relationship

Evol Psychol. 2023 Oct-Dec;21(4):14747049231210245. doi: 10.1177/14747049231210245.

Abstract

Forming long-term intimate relationships is a human universal, with most people across different times and cultures doing so. Such relationships should be associated with important benefits otherwise individuals would not engage in them, with the current research aiming to identify what people consider as beneficial in a long-term intimate relationship. More specifically, Study 1 employed qualitative research methods in a sample of 221 Greek-speaking participants, and identified 82 perceived benefits. Study 2 employed quantitative research methods in a sample of 545 Greek-speaking participants, and classified these benefits into 10 broad factors and two broader domains. Experiencing positive emotions, including love and passion, as well as having someone to provide support and do things together, were considered among the most important benefits. Although there were a few significant differences, the evaluations of the perceived benefits of intimate relationships were generally consistent across participants of different sex, age, and relationship status.

Keywords: benefits of intimate relationships; intimate relationships; long-term mating; mating.

MeSH terms

  • Emotions
  • Humans
  • Interpersonal Relations*
  • Love
  • Sexual Behavior* / psychology
  • Sexual Partners / psychology