We report on the manipulation of extreme events (EEs) in a slave spin-polarized vertical-cavity surface-emitting laser (spin-VCSEL) subject to chaotic optical injection from a master spin-VCSEL. The master laser is free-running but yielding a chaotic regime with obvious EEs, while the slave laser originally (i.e., without external injection) operates in either continuous-wave (CW), period-one (P1), period-two (P2), or a chaotic state. We systematically investigate the influence of injection parameters, i.e., injection strength and frequency detuning, on the characteristics of EEs. We find that injection parameters can regularly trigger, enhance, or suppress the relative number of EEs in the slave spin-VCSEL, where the large ranges of enhanced vectorial EEs and average intensity of both vectorial and scalar EEs can be achieved with suitable parameter conditions. Moreover, with the help of two-dimensional correlation maps, we confirm that the probability of occurrence of EEs in the slave spin-VCSEL is associated with the injection locking regions, outside which enhanced relative number of EEs regions can be obtained and expanded with augmenting the complexity of the initial dynamic state of the slave spin-VCSEL.