This article addresses distributed optimization problems, in which a group of agents cooperatively minimize the sum of their private objective functions via information exchanging. Building on alternating direction method of multipliers (ADMM), we propose a privacy-preserving and communication-efficient decentralized quadratically approximated ADMM algorithm, termed PC-DQM, for solving such type of problems under the scenario of limited communication. In PC-DQM, an event-triggered mechanism is designed to schedule the communication instants for reducing communication cost. Simultaneously, for privacy preservation, a Hessian matrix with perturbed noise is introduced to quadratically approximate the objective function, which results in a closed form of primal vector update and then avoids solving a subproblem at each iteration with possible high computation cost. In addition, the triggered scheme is also utilized to schedule the update of Hessian, which can also reduce computation cost. We theoretically show that PC-DQM can protect privacy but without losing accuracy. In addition, we rigorously prove that PC-DQM converges linearly to the exact optimal solution for strongly convex and smooth objective functions. Finally, numerical simulation is presented to illustrate the effectiveness and efficiency of our algorithm.