What About the Sexual Orientation of the Offspring of Lesbian and Gay Parents? A Multidimensional, Time and Gender-Based Answer

J Homosex. 2023 Nov 10;70(13):3051-3074. doi: 10.1080/00918369.2022.2086750. Epub 2022 Jun 27.

Abstract

This study examined the sexual orientation of 30 young adult children of lesbian and gay parents, analyzing three dimensions (sexual behavior, sexual attraction and sexual self-identification), their evolution over time and the possible influence of gender (19 women and 11 men). Sexual orientation was measured using KSOG. The results revealed that most participants defined themselves as heterosexual only, although percentages varied between 87% for sexual behavior to 67% for sexual attraction and 60% for sexual self-identification. Gender differences were found for sexual attraction and self-identification, with men having a polarized profile (responses at both ends of the scale) and women reporting a less exclusive and more fluid sexuality. These findings are discussed in light of the complex nature of sexual orientation, the freedom of these young adults for defining their sexual orientation, and the role played by gender and family experiences.

Keywords: Sexual orientation; adult children; gay fathers; gender differences; lesbian mothers; same-sex parents; sexual attraction; sexual behavior; sexual fluidity; sexual self-definition.

MeSH terms

  • Female
  • Heterosexuality
  • Homosexuality, Female*
  • Humans
  • Male
  • Parents
  • Sexual Behavior
  • Sexual and Gender Minorities*
  • Young Adult