Father-child bonding and mental health in gay fathers using cross-border surrogacy during the COVID-19 pandemic

Reprod Biomed Online. 2021 Oct;43(4):756-764. doi: 10.1016/j.rbmo.2021.05.023. Epub 2021 Jun 7.

Abstract

Research question: What are the psychological implications of the COVID-19 pandemic for father-child bonding and mental health among Italian gay fathers pursuing surrogacy in the USA or Canada?

Design: Between 20 March and 29 July 2020, this cross-sectional case-control study collected data on father-child bonding quality, depression, anxiety and somatization in 30 Italian gay fathers (n=15 families) who were having or successfully had a child through cross-border surrogacy during the COVID-19 pandemic. These fathers were compared with a sociodemographically similar group of 50 Italian gay fathers (n=25 families) who had children through cross-border surrogacy prior to the pandemic.

Results: Although father-child bonding quality and the mental health symptoms of fathers scored below the clinical cut-off points in both groups, fathers who had or were having a child during the COVID-19 pandemic reported poorer father-child bonding (estimate 3.04, SE 1.47, P=0.044) and more depressive (estimate -1.47, SE 0.49, P=0.005), anxious (estimate -1.96, SE 0.55, P<0.001) and somatic symptoms (estimate -2.48, SE 0.52, P<0.001).

Conclusions: The findings call for the development of international guidelines for cross-border surrogacy and underline the need for tailored and ongoing psychological and legal support for intended gay fathers to ease their strain and anxiety related to having a child through cross-border surrogacy during the COVID-19 pandemic.

Keywords: COVID-19; Cross-border surrogacy; Father–child bonding; Gay fathers; Mental health.

MeSH terms

  • Adult
  • Anxiety / complications
  • COVID-19 / epidemiology*
  • Canada
  • Case-Control Studies
  • Depression / complications
  • Fathers / psychology*
  • Female
  • Homosexuality, Male / psychology*
  • Humans
  • Italy
  • Male
  • Medically Unexplained Symptoms
  • Middle Aged
  • Object Attachment*
  • Pandemics
  • Parenting / psychology*
  • Surrogate Mothers
  • United States