"I Despise Myself for Thinking about Them." A Thematic Analysis of the Mental Health Implications and Employed Coping Mechanisms of Self-Reported Non-Offending Minor Attracted Persons

J Child Sex Abus. 2019 Nov-Dec;28(8):968-989. doi: 10.1080/10538712.2019.1657539. Epub 2019 Sep 11.

Abstract

'Non-offending pedophiles' or 'minor attracted persons' are individuals who suppress an attraction to children. Previous analyses of this population's mental illness employed overt self-report methods, limited by social desirability. Additionally, studies assessing the coping mechanisms employed to remain offense-free are underpowered; understanding of these would facilitate the rehabilitation of prior offenders. A thematic analysis of coping mechanisms and mental illness was conducted on 5,210 posts on the 'Virtuous Pedophiles' forum. Four themes emerged for coping mechanisms: Managing risk and attraction to children, Managing mood, Managing preferences prosocially and Friends, family and relationships, with 13 subthemes. Five themes emerged for mental ill-health, including: Addiction, Anxiety, Depression, Self-hatred/Self-harm/Suicide and Other. Self-hatred/Self-harm/Suicide accounted for almost a third of discussed mental ill-health. These results highlight the severity of mental ill-health amongst this population and the coping mechanisms employed to remain offense-free.

Keywords: Suppression; coping mechanisms; mental ill-health; minor attracted person; pedophilia.

MeSH terms

  • Adult
  • Child
  • Child Abuse, Sexual / psychology*
  • Criminals / psychology
  • Female
  • Humans
  • Male
  • Mental Health*
  • Pedophilia / psychology*
  • Self Concept*
  • Self Report*