The reactivity patterns of carbodiphosphoranes (CDPs) as ligands are much less explored than those of isoelectronic analogues. In the current manuscript, we investigate the reactivity of the carbodiphosphorane-based PCP nickel(ii) pincer complex [({dppm}2C)NiCl]Cl (1) towards acids and bases, calculate proton affinities, analyse the bonding situation and tautomeric forms with the aim to evaluate whether CDPs can potentially act as cooperative ligands in catalysis (dppm = 1,1-bis(diphenylphosphino)methane). Our investigations show that different tautomeric forms are stable for the coordinated and the uncoordinated ligand. The protonated CDP-based complex 2 represents a rare example of a cationic donor group binding to a cationic metal centre. The continuous arm-deprotonation of 1 leads to the formation of remarkably stable dimers with Ni-C-P-C-metallacycles. In comparison to corresponding boron and amine-based ligands, the coordinated CDP-group exhibits the lowest proton affinity according to DFT calculations, indicating that coordinated CDP ligands can potentially serve as proton relay in cooperative catalysis.