Difficult but Close Relationships: Children's Perspectives on Relationships With Their Mothers in the Context of Domestic Violence

Violence Against Women. 2018 Jul;24(9):1023-1038. doi: 10.1177/1077801217731541. Epub 2017 Oct 25.

Abstract

This article reports findings from a participative and qualitative study conducted with children who had experienced domestic violence, focusing on their perspectives on their relationships with their mothers. Three focus groups and 46 individual interviews were conducted with children to gather their experiences. The research findings demonstrate that women's and children's victimizations are inextricably linked, and that domestic violence affects mother-child relationships. They also show that, despite the challenges and difficulties, children generally consider their mothers as very significant individuals in their lives, and have close relationships with them. The findings also reveal a dynamic of mutual protectiveness.

Keywords: children’s exposure to domestic violence; domestic violence; mother–child relationships.

Publication types

  • Research Support, Non-U.S. Gov't

MeSH terms

  • Adolescent
  • Child
  • Child of Impaired Parents / psychology*
  • Crime Victims / psychology
  • Domestic Violence / psychology*
  • Domestic Violence / statistics & numerical data
  • Female
  • Focus Groups
  • Humans
  • Interviews as Topic / methods
  • Male
  • Mother-Child Relations / psychology*
  • Mothers / psychology
  • Mothers / statistics & numerical data
  • Ontario
  • Qualitative Research