During the recent past, we have synthesized a new class of molecules with intramolecular two-dimensional charge transfer upon excitation. The present report presents such a molecule, 2,6-bis(4-dimethylamino-benzylidene)-cyclohexanone (DMABC), with an unusually high value of the second-order non-linear optical (NLO) coefficients. In order to optimize the macroscopic NLO properties of the compounds, it is necessary to relate their first hyperpolarizability tensors at a molecular level to those at a crystal bulk level. This requires a complete structure determination and refinement. However, the growth of sufficiently large single crystals, which are needed for structural analysis and refinement by X-ray methods, is a time consuming and sometimes impossible task. We have performed a complete structural analysis by electron diffraction combined with simulation methods and with maximum entropy and log likelihood statistics. In order to improve the quantitative analysis, a 300 kV data set using an on-line CCD camera was added and the best attainable R-values were compared with those from 100 kV data using film emulsions. Details regarding the maximum attainable resolution for both data sets are discussed as well as the problems which arise from the limited dynamic range in photographic emulsions as compared to a 14 bit CCD camera. Once the crystal structure was known, quantum-chemical methods were used to calculate non-linear optical susceptibility tensor components and these were related to the macroscopic coefficients of the crystalline quadratic non-linearity tensor. In the present work, both ab initio and semi-empirical quantum-chemical calculations were employed.